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The intimacy lab—where design learns to feel

I teach the art of emotional technology—uniting touch, psychology, and beautiful systems. For readers of The Intimacy Code, curious teams, and brands brave enough to whisper.

Minimalism. Warmth. Precision. Come closer.

Diego Sarmiento

I was born in Venezuela and have lived in five countries. Today, as an American citizen in northeast Florida, I explore how technology can deepen presence rather than dilute it.

My work lives at the intersection of technology, design, and desire—what I call emotional technology. Systems that feel alive: interfaces that invite, communities that listen, brands that whisper.

Through The Intimacy Code and the workshops it inspired, I help teams design experiences with curiosity, presence, and a soft rebellion.

Most ideas start barefoot—coffee, notebook, and the Atlantic breathing in the background.

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The Intimacy Code

A book for those who still believe technology can feel. It explores the space between our devices—where attention becomes touch and algorithms learn to listen back.

Chapter 9 reframes connection as a currency of survival. Chapter 10 brings us back barefoot to the world. Together, they close the loop: intellect and sensation, circuit and pulse.

Not self-help—an act of remembering that feeling deeply is a form of intelligence.

Experiences

I help teams and creators translate desire into design—quiet, precise, unforgettable. Choose an experience, or invite me to craft one for your world.

Workshops — Emotional Technology

3–6 hours · team immersion
  • Design rituals that increase felt presence in products
  • Build “soft UX” patterns for intimacy & consent
  • Translate desire into ethical, testable interfaces
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Keynotes — The Intimacy Code

30–60 min · thought-provocation
  • Why touch is the new metric
  • AI companions & the future of belonging
  • Soft rebellion: designing for tenderness
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Consulting — Private Lab

Advisory sprints · 2–8 weeks
  • Audit of product language & emotional UX
  • Positioning, story architecture, voice systems
  • Prototype reviews with live narrative edits
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Not sure which format fits? Tell me about your team, your product, and the feeling you want your users to remember.

Journal

Field notes on intimacy, design, and the quiet revolutions between them.

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Aug 30, 2025

Language That Touches

Voice systems and the craft of words that stay on the skin.

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Join the circle

Private letters, early invites, soft experiments. No noise—only closeness.